• Support Wokingham Today
  • Get the print edition
  • Sign up for our daily newsletter
Friday, August 28, 2026
Wokingham.Today
  • HOME
  • MY AREA
    • All
    • Arborfield
    • Barkham
    • Beech Hill
    • Binfield
    • Bracknell
    • Charvil
    • Crowthorne
    • Earley
    • Emmbrook
    • Finchampstead
    • Grazeley
    • Henley
    • Hurst
    • Lower Earley
    • Norreys
    • Reading
    • Remenham
    • Riseley
    • Shinfield
    • Sindlesham
    • Sonning
    • Spencers Wood
    • Swallowfield
    • Three Mile Cross
    • Twyford
    • Wargrave
    • Winnersh
    • Wokingham
    • Wokingham Without
    • Woodley
    • Woosehill
    • Yateley

    Finchampstead Road closed after four-car collision in Wokingham

    Jamie T Picture: Wikimedia Commons, Drew de F Fawkes

    Reading Festival confirms another huge Friday surprise

    The mayor of Sandhurst wants to box Sir Sadiq.

    Mayor issues boxing challenge to Sadiq Khan

    Royal Blood Picture: Wikimedia Commons

    Reading Festival announces huge surprise act just days before gates open

    An event to open Covid Memorial Woodland will give people an opportunity to walk through the trees at sunset. Picture: WBC

    The borough remembers: Covid Memorial Woodland opens to the public

    Reading Today; Reading Festival 2024; Saturday 24th August 2024;

    Reading Festival weather forecast: Met Office reveals when thundery showers could hit

    Swallowfield Show. Pic: Wokingham Borough Council.

    Why thousands will flock to Swallowfield Park this Bank Holiday

    Broad Street Beats

    Broad Street Beats celebrates Pride 2026 in style

    Who Ate All the Crayons Picture: Andrew Merritt

    RaW Sounds Today: Wokingham Festival 2026 special

  • CRIME
  • SPORT
    • All
    • Binfield FC
    • Reading FC
    The mayor of Sandhurst wants to box Sir Sadiq.

    Mayor issues boxing challenge to Sadiq Khan

    Wokingham Town v Hungerford. Pic: Andrew Batt.

    Last-minute FA cup heartbreak for Sumas

    Reading FC Picture: Luke Adams

    Reading FC progress in EFL Cup as debutant impresses

    Conor Masterson has signed for Reading

    ‘He’s earned this opportunity’: Reading FC confirm signing of central defender

    Reading FC

    Reading FC beat rivals to sign two teenage prospects

    MP Clive Jones and town mayor Alwyn Jones were at Cantley to watch Ashridge Park v Slough Town.

    Mixed fortunes in FA Cup

    Reading FC Picture: Luke Adams

    Former Reading FC twins closing in on move to Premier League club

    Reading FC signed George Earthy from West Ham

    Reading FC transfer fee for George Earthy from West Ham United reportedly revealed

    Reading FC could benefit from Femi Azeez's proposed transfer to the Premier League

    Former Reading FC star could be set for big money Premier League move

  • READING FC
  • COMMUNITY
    Wokingham Community Awards 2025; All Saints Church Wokingham; Wokingham Today;

    Send in your nominations: Wokingham Sports & Community Awards 2026

    The mayor of Sandhurst wants to box Sir Sadiq.

    Mayor issues boxing challenge to Sadiq Khan

    An event to open Covid Memorial Woodland will give people an opportunity to walk through the trees at sunset. Picture: WBC

    The borough remembers: Covid Memorial Woodland opens to the public

    Swallowfield Show. Pic: Wokingham Borough Council.

    Why thousands will flock to Swallowfield Park this Bank Holiday

    Kinship carers step in when parents can't care for their children. Picture: Marjonhorn via Pixabay

    ‘The children will always be ours’: Wokingham families stepping up to raise loved ones

    Live music, theatre and family entertainment will take over Bracknell town centre on Saturday, September 5.

    Free music and performances at The Lexicon

    Audiences can watch Urchin at the Whitty Theatre, Wokingham. Picture: Pexels via Pixabay

    Enjoy a hope-filled film night in Wokingham

    Three Tesco Wokingham gants will benefit local youngsters. PIcture: Tesco Wokingham

    Tesco grant means children at Evendons can have more fun in the playground

    Pilates plans for Places Leisure

  • LIFESTYLE
    • All
    • Food
    • Health
    • Obituaries
    • People
    Swallowfield Show. Pic: Wokingham Borough Council.

    Why thousands will flock to Swallowfield Park this Bank Holiday

    Live music, theatre and family entertainment will take over Bracknell town centre on Saturday, September 5.

    Free music and performances at The Lexicon

    Pilates plans for Places Leisure

    Volunteers at The Cowshed prepare items for people in crisis, just one of the charity's community activities. Picture: Emma Merchant

    Cowshed clarification

    Steve Broad, 69, is blind and disabled. He lives with his wife, 72, in Hanover Gardens, Bracknell. They've been left without a working shower for more than a year. Credit: Broad family

    Blind Bracknell pensioner forced to travel miles for a shower after year-long nightmare

    SHORE Josephine (Jo)

    Twydord village fete.

    Twyford set to shine as annual village fete returns on Saturday

    Mark Asdhwell and Liz Verrall. Pic: Stewart Turkington.

    Big changes coming to Wokingham’s Cantley Park under new football partnership

    The living willow caterpillar in the nature play area has been carefully shaped, woven and restored by rangers.

    Help choose a name for Dinton’s caterpillar

  • WHAT’S ON
    • All
    • Arts
    • Entertainment
    Jamie T Picture: Wikimedia Commons, Drew de F Fawkes

    Reading Festival confirms another huge Friday surprise

    Swallowfield Show. Pic: Wokingham Borough Council.

    Why thousands will flock to Swallowfield Park this Bank Holiday

    Who Ate All the Crayons Picture: Andrew Merritt

    RaW Sounds Today: Wokingham Festival 2026 special

    Royal Blood Picture: Wikimedia Commons

    Five Royal Blood songs to know before their surprise Reading Festival set

    The Sting Operation

    5 Wokingham Festival acts you won’t want to miss this Bank Holiday weekend

    The Secret Garden at SHP is a joy not to miss. Picture: Alex Harvey-Brown

    The Secret Garden – a delightful treat for young and old alike

    Oye Santana, official winners of the 2018 National Tribute Music Awards. Pic: Andrew Merritt.

    Music Club acts unveiled

    Visitors to Reading Festival will be able to get help with broken tents, poles, glasses and much more, at Wokingham Repair Cafe's Reparium. Picture: Wokingham Repair Cafe

    Broken tent at Reading Festival? This new pop-up could save your weekend

    Reading Festival 2025 Picture: Luke Dyson
@lukedyson
www.lukedyson.com

    Reading Festival 2026 set times revealed – when every big act is on stage, including ‘Special Guest’ announcement

  • BUSINESS
  • ADVERTISE
  • CONTACT
No Result
View All Result
Wokingham.Today
No Result
View All Result
Home What's On Arts

REVIEW: Wokingham Theatre’s My Dear Dear Boy

by Staff Writer
November 13, 2018
in Arts, Featured
Wokingham Theatre

Wokingham Theatre used a young cast to full effect in My Dear Dear Boy Picture: Alex Harvey-Brown

Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

When a friend handed playwright Peter Stallwood a bundle of 100, century-old letters little did he know of the story they would contain and the devastation they’d tell of what one family endured during the First World War.

Nearly a hundred years to the day since the end of the conflict that led to it, Wokingham Theatre’s original new production of My Dear, Dear Boy dramatised the true story Cyril Maddox, his mother Emmaline, and how their lives were forever changed by the greatest conflict the world had ever seen.

The production was masterfully and sensitively handled by its directors, Thomas Joy and Jessica Hadleigh, capturing just the right balance of darkness and light. The interweaving within Stallwood’s script of dialogue and letters between Cyril and family members is a wonderful dramatic device. The letters are so banal, often becoming a simple list of things they could send him to ease his time at the front.

And they have a local connection, as Cyril at one point asks ‘how far is it from Woking to Wokingham?’ as he considers cycling there while on officer training.

A letter home is read Picture: Alex Harvey-Brown

The letters are laced with love, loss and loyalty. It would have been all too easy for them to disrupt the action of the story, but they did quite the opposite. They brought these people to life in their own words, an experience almost unique in its delivery.

One of the cleverest techniques employed by the play was the (at times unbearable) dramatic irony that came with our historical knowledge of the First World War. Emmaline makes reference to the fact that Cyril is soon to be moving to the Somme, and is hopeful of the outcome.

Related posts

Woking loan to be repaid this week

It’s Jeeves and Wooster, don’t you know

Of course, we know only too well how this turned out, with the British Army suffering 420,000 casualties at the battle. Cyril was among them, suffering a surface bullet wound that took him back to Blighty for recuperation, where he learns his younger brother has lied about his age and enlisted in the army as well.

Picture: Alex Harvey-Brown

As an extra to its season, the theatre allowed itself the luxury of experimentation, with adults joining members of the youth theatre to form the cast.

The ensemble of soldiers was all played by under 18s, a fact that further highlighted the human cost of war. Seeing these young men banter about girls they wanted to sleep with, going out drinking and mocking their superiors would not have been out of place in any bar on a Friday night. Except these young men, like so many others, were killed in action 100 years ago.

Playing Cyril’s parents, Hedda Bird and Peter Pearson’s performances were beautifully underplayed.

Bird especially managed to capture the agony of a mother whose son is on the battlefront asking for more socks as his has holes in, supported by a lovely performance from Victoria Paterson as her sister, Mollie.

Cyril’s three siblings were also a delight, as Clare Bray, Harry Bradley and the ever-so-charming – and youngest member of the cast – Bryony Thornton showed what a tight unit the Maddox family were. Their commitment to their roles only made the story more personal and more devastating, and indeed, it was the son of Thornton’s character, Ruthie, who first handed his family’s letters to our playwright.

Military figures were captured to perfection by Mike Paterson and Simon Vail, with a scene between two senior officers discussing Cyril’s suitability for officer training a much-needed moment of dark comedy in the play.

It received tuts and headshakes from the audience for their shock at Cyril’s sobriety, lack of ‘good schooling’, and the fact his father was a piano salesman, despite how well he performed in exams and his relationship with the men.

Picture: Alex Harvey-Brown

The star of the show was, without question, its leading man, or rather, boy, Andrew Csukai, who played Cyrill Maddox. Only 15, Csukai gave a beautifully innocent performance of the young officer, completely believable, and extraordinarily ordinary in its execution.

The split-stage set was simple and flexible, beautifully managing to capture 1900s household life on its left and the changing military environment on its right. Little did we know that this would culminate in the play’s most heartbreaking moment, as Emmaline reads her son’s final letter.

Standing only a few inches away from each other, they allow themselves a final look as he stands among his fallen men on the battlefield, before eventually falling himself.

Picture: Thomas Joy

Sound and lighting designer Matthew Edwards’ subtle touch to the plays technical elements was utterly compelling, with no detail left unattended to. A piano practice offstage to the left was swiftly followed by battle noises to the right, and the directors’ choice of operatic music helped the play reach its breathtaking crescendo.

This was known as the war to end all wars, with a sense of national grief unlike no other. But I have never seen something that so beautifully captures the sense of loss from one, simple, loving family, told in the words of those who lived through it. This was a masterpiece of humanity, and I am so glad I got to see it; my only criticism is that the run did not go on for longer so more people could see it.

SOPHIE PIERCE

 

Keep up to date by signing up for our daily newsletter

We don’t spam we only send our newsletter to people who have requested it.

Check your inbox or spam folder to confirm your subscription.

Tags: British Armyfirst world warMy Dear Dear BoyPeter StallwoodWokingWokingham TheatreWorld War OneWWI
Previous Post

Winnersh gas main roadworks to close road junction for two weeks

Next Post

Pubs to offer a free Gin and Tonic this Wednesday

FOLLOW US

POPULAR THIS WEEK

Bracknell police carry out night-time speed checks after residents' requests

Bracknell police carry out night-time speed checks after residents’ requests

August 24, 2026
Visitors to Reading Festival will be able to get help with broken tents, poles, glasses and much more, at Wokingham Repair Cafe's Reparium. Picture: Wokingham Repair Cafe

Broken tent at Reading Festival? This new pop-up could save your weekend

August 25, 2026
Reading Festival 2025 Picture: Luke Dyson
@lukedyson
www.lukedyson.com

Reading Festival 2026 set times revealed – when every big act is on stage, including ‘Special Guest’ announcement

August 21, 2026
Steve Broad, 69, is blind and disabled. He lives with his wife, 72, in Hanover Gardens, Bracknell. They've been left without a working shower for more than a year. Credit: Broad family

Blind Bracknell pensioner forced to travel miles for a shower after year-long nightmare

August 23, 2026
Wokingham Foodbank is providing special summer bags of everyday essentials, thanks to a grant from Wokingham Lions Club. Picture courtesy of Wokingham Borough Council

Wokingham Foodbank reveals how it is helping families through summer holidays

August 22, 2026
The Adobe Women's FA Cup. Pic: The Football Association.

Women’s FA Cup fever hits Wokingham

August 21, 2026

ABOUT US

Wokingham Today is dedicated to providing news online across the whole of the Borough of Wokingham. It is a Social Enterprise, existing to support the various communities in Wokingham Borough.

Wokingham.Today is a Social Enterprise and aims to ensure that everyone within the Borough has free access to independent and up-to-date news. However, providing this service is not without costs. If you are able to, please make a contribution to support our work.

CONTACT US

news@wokinghampaper.co.uk

Keep up to date with our daily newsletter

We don’t spam we only send our newsletter to people that have subscribed

Check your inbox or spam folder to confirm your subscription.

  • Support Us
  • Book Advertising
  • Contact Us
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms and Conditions
  • Get the Print Edition
  • Sign up for our daily newsletter

The Wokingham Paper Ltd publications are regulated by IPSO – the Independent Press Standards Organisation.
If you have a complaint about a  The Wokingham Paper Ltd  publication in print or online, you should, in the first instance, contact the publication concerned, email: editor@wokingham.today, or telephone: 0118 327 2662. If it is not resolved to your satisfaction, you should contact IPSO by telephone: 0300 123 2220, or visit its website: www.ipso.co.uk. Members of the public are welcome to contact IPSO at any time if they are not sure how to proceed, or need advice on how to frame a complaint.

No Result
View All Result
  • HOME
  • MY AREA
    • Arborfield
    • Barkham
    • Beech Hill
    • Binfield
    • Bracknell
    • Charvil
    • Crowthorne
    • Earley
    • Emmbrook
    • Finchampstead
    • Grazeley
    • Henley
    • Hurst
    • Lower Earley
    • Norreys
    • Reading
    • Remenham
  • CRIME
  • COMMUNITY
  • LIFESTYLE
  • SPORT
  • READING FC
  • OBITUARIES
  • WHAT’S ON
  • BUSINESS
  • PHOTOS
  • ADVERTISE WITH US
  • CONTACT US
  • WHERE TO GET THE PRINT EDITION
  • SUPPORT US

© 2022 - The Wokingham Paper Ltd - All Right Reserved.